WHAT ARE WE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING HERE ? BY Aakash Girdhar

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What do you want from me ?                       

I want you to become capable of DIGESTING/ENDURING  any level of NEGATIVITY thrown at you like a sponge , so that one day it will end and there will be none left . And all that absorbed carbon will turn in to a diamond. 

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I want you to be so STRONG that if one day you die and god asks : Who is ready for an another round to earth ? your hand should be the first one to go up .

I want you to NEVER GIVE-UP in your life , even if you are all alone .

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I want you to find CONTENTMENT with all what you have and will get in life or nothing more will satisfy you .      

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I want you to BECOME a person who helps people out of their SADNESS and dance in their time of HAPPINESS .

I want you to know that you have an OBLIGATION towards happiness

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I want you to be READY, so READY that even if you are left alone in this world all by yourself ; you do not sweat but smile as you must . 

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I want you to LIVE as if you are living to make your creator proud .

I want you to make this time of your life as a vacation to heaven because as my friend shared ” what if god/creator asks you how was heaven? “

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                                               You ask – Who is god ? 

Hmm.. I think he is a innocent and a careless kid playing on a farm without any worries !! 
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He has done his work now its time you do your part and meet him at the end , with your experience of life.

Don’t be afraid of what is inevitable , why not till it comes ; you go on an adventure worth sharing with your creator.

                                                          **LIFE GOAL **

                                     BE A GOOD PERSON – AND LOVE ALL.             helping-others-ws31

 

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How to break through the maze of negativity in our Mind – By Aakash Girdhar

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“We always try to stay positive, but something happens somehow leaving us in this closed box of negativity”

“We experience OUR life through different phases, ways, illusions, ideas, thoughts, vacuums and motion

I have seen and also felt that maintaining an aura or vibe of positivism consistently, Gets a little difficult. But there are some things we can always do to come back to the blissful stage, like my father says :

“It’s not about getting negative; it’s about how fast you can recover from it”       

“Bursting happiness of life” 

tumblr_me9v7r31B51rm7a67o1_5001.)   We are very strong and proud member of this amazing society we live in, BUT remember sometimes everyone needs a push; dark illusions of mind can only unfold with the help of another being.  

 If you are going through a tough time in your life, take an initiative and get out of your bed to meet your  close ones, friends,and neighbors-“PEOPLE”                                                        

   You will realize that sometimes when you are in need of support & “There is no one; even a small talk with an unknown person about his life can provide you warmth   tumblr_mm7cfz1Ur51s2c75ro1_250

 So do ask for help!!          

“Getting out of quick sand is far easier with a hand pulling you out


2.)   Another beautiful way to solve this challenging puzzle of unhappiness is to “do exactly opposite to what you are engaged in your life right now”                  tumblr_mlsxqe77nK1s2c75ro1_250

See it’s very simple, if you are travelling on a road and you find it closed at the end what do you do Take a different route 

Let’s say , you haven’t watched a movie for a long time then “go for it “

It’s been while you went out partying “go for it”

A holiday, it’s been years “then go for it”

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Understand that if dancing in the middle of the road is completely not your type “go for it”      

 For a week, do stuff you don’t do normally and let the mystery of negativity unfold & dissolve .

I tried to solve my problem with “X” way of thinking it did not work out,  so try “Y”


 3.)  A common mistake that I know we all make and I sometime still do is,  we stop doing stuff.

When we are going through a rough patch , we get disoriented causing to disrupt our daily good habits .HpPDKQb

Like in my period of struggle i stop exercising , reading , meditating & yoga which actually would help .

See some things are always stationary , going for a jog every morning shouldn’t be disturbed if you are going through a career, financial or an emotional phase .

“ Never ever stop the good habits you have in the time of downfall

Go for your walkStart readingDeep breathGo for your dance classAnd so on

Thinks will always get better but don’t loose on your health or tumblr_mpdf3dYho81sojjzlo1_400happiness due to a temporary phase of life. 

Use your time of stagnation , struggle , hardships to train, polish and sharpen yourself because you will be making lots of decisions in life in the influence of this period of dullness.


 4.)  Your words play a very crucial role in this time and phase of your life. tumblr_ngrf9aRrgk1rvzu9do1_500

What you want ? this universe will do it for you ? but you have to come forward and let it knowEven a genie doesn’t grant your wish until you tell him what to you need . PS: yes genie’s exists , in case of doubt please call Aladdin.tumblr_n7s71oabLL1smcbm7o1_250

So whenever you get caught in this addictive dark circle of negativity followed by self sympathy , Ask for freedom , wisdom and believe that you will get out soon.  You will get what you ask for”

So if you say that

This is hard , dark or I am not good enough all these affirmations will be granted ;it your choice where you want to be.

You know a amazing thing about this mind;  in seconds you feel everything is destroyed and that you have no chance, but a simple change in weather may get you to think otherwise.

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Let us  all connect and spread positivism for people who are stuck in their maze of darkness , let us all shed light and Give a hand and light to those in need.  

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              Good luck!!  

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We have been inspired our whole life, NOW IT’S OUR TIME TO INSPIRE – by Aakash Girdhar

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                        “MANY INSPIRED ME, BUT I INSPIRED NONE”

During this beautiful journey of life, we get so many inspirations and motivations from amazing people, stories, things, events and everything around us. But what do we do?

We get inspired for a moment but with flow of time we FORGET.

So, is it temporary?

Why at the end of the year, we don’t have things we aspired for or things which stopped and motivated us!! like for me, I got inspired for 6 pack abs but sorry to say I am nowhere close . vector-of-a-cartoon-bodybuilder-flexing-coloring-page-outline-by-ron-leishman-20454

So basically we spend hours watching what people create, innovate, inspire and then we still go back to what we were doing without a big change PERMANENTLY, doesn’t sound very heroic.

I will tell you why?I think the problem is, we are not taking the responsibility to INSPIRE. I believe that getting inspired is very important but doing the same for others is even more important.

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            “I have many role models, but I guess it’s time to be one”

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We survive on the creativity of people around us but I guess on this path we have forgotten that we have to start creating too (not only babies) but more. Have you ever realized that TV , books, movies and all sources of entertainment are created and innovated by people who did not only watch others create but took initiative to add something too.186133517

                   “We need to create that will of fire within us”    

Enjoy all the creativity and get motivated, but keep in mind that you also have a responsibility to inspire others.

                                    “Inspire people with your way of life”

    “We have lived for ourselves for too long, it’s time we live for others”

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Inspiring doesn’t require too much of your effort but a simple pure kindhearted involvement in what you are doing with an intention of well being .

Now being an inspiration doesn’t mean that you have to become a billionaire or climb Mt. Everest; even a simple act of politeness, kindness or counselling someone in the time of need is enough.

Being nice to this universe anonymously is sufficient; you don’t have to be famous to be an inspiration.peace-love-hearts

So let’s do it; who won’t like to live in a world where everyone gets up in the morning with an aim to inspire, motivate, and spread love and peace.

 

“Once you aim to inspire, all your problems will become so small and solvable”

People say that I have enough on my plate already, once I get out of this, then I will think about it!!! Not really

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People spend hours fighting to prove that they are “right” and this need to be “right” keeps them stuck in this vicious circle. Hence, they never get time to do something for others as they are always busy being Right.

Make relationships to inspire, be good; don’t always see what’s in it for you.

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See there are 2 ways of approaching a problem to which you have no solution;

  • You be patient and try your best to find out the solution

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  • You get out there and till the time you have no solution , you try and solve problems of people around you , &

I can assure you, your solution will come forward by itself.

           “I COULDN’T HELP MYSELF, SO I HELPED OTHER’S WHICH ACTUALLY HELPED ME”

Sometimes you may experience that , you are going through an issue or crisis in life and it so happens that your friend or known person ask you for guidance and during the talk you give him/ her you realize the solution to your own issue too .

“If you are stuck anywhere in your life, help others who are stuck”

“You want something, give something and it will come back”

“WE always take and take, I think it’s time we start giving”

Always expecting has become our perpetual need, there are very few who spend time giving than taking.

 “Invest in the happiness of people around you, and you will never be sad again”

“It’s our time to be an inspiration, let our actions show that”

“Let us all be heroes and heroines of our time”

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“LET’S INSPIRE”

 

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How to channelize your ANGER & FEAR in to creativity – by Aakash Girdhar

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“ANGER ALWAYS RESULTS IN DESTRUCTION ; EMOTIONALLY , PHYSICALLY OR BOTH”

What I lose when I am angry?

  • My ability to think straight                        overcoming-fear        
  • My patience, peace, love
  • My understanding; empathy
  • balance of mind disappears
  • And everything I have known or preached about good behavior and its effects on life means nothing to me in that moment of ANGER.

So ANGER is such a strong emotion that it takes away from you everything in a matter of seconds and leaves you with a circle of negativity.

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And what gives this anger such amazing power, it is our FEARS.

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And then of course if you try to eat up your anger it gives you frustration, disappointment …. Actually if you try the other way around, showering your anger on people around YOU also won’t give  you satisfaction i can assure that but of course guilt and regrets will follow.  

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fear (1)“FEAR IS THE MOST AMAZING OF EM’ ALL , TAKES 90 % OF our BRAIN-TIME  and waste it”

  • Fear of:  Living , death , looking good , winning , losing , being alone , being with people , fear of animals , people , love , not loved , heights , things everything , fear of god , religion , colors , ghost ,anger, fear of right and wrong , fear of results , fear of outcomes ,fear of fear, Fear of stagnation and adding to list                                                                    every day.

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What I lose when I am in FEAR?

  • Happiness , hope
  • Opportunities , possibilities
  • Courage , motivation
  • Calmness, peace, my balance and so much more!!

BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT YOU LOSE IN FEAR AND ANGER IS YOURSELF 

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       FEAR and ANGER are two very influential and  interesting emotions of our life , lets try and see them from a different and POSITIVE prospective (till the time we gain full control over them ) !!

ANGER generates a vast amount of energy out of nowhere, somewhere hidden deep  inside sleeping. I have seen people fighting for hours who by the way were too weak to even complete their own work.   

ANGER gives you confidence. In that moment of anger , nervousness disappears and its possible that you may perform more confidently .

ANGER overcomes your fear, only for moment but it does. If you corner an animal , most likely it will fear you first but then anger will appear and you will have to give it space to go.

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In the moment of anger you become more motivated, determined, confident, powerful and independent.

BUT the issue is we have no CONTROL, and all these positives get overpowered by the negatives. So, here is my suggestion now WHEN ever you get angry

First, take a deep breath and try to store that vast energy in to you by giving your mind affirmations like “I am in full control”  “I will do what is necessary” “ I will be better than this” “ I will work harder” “I will love more and more” “ I will not give up “

See anger can be used in a positive way as it’s up to you how you guide your volcanic energy at that moment without damaging yourself.

And if you overcome your FEAR anger will dissolve, and it goes the other way round. If you are angry try what you fear the most, two outcomes are likely

1) You will overcome that fear

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2)Your anger will disappear

FEAR do make us more cautious and secured but i guess too much in the shadow.

FEAR is as deep as mind allows it; you can overcome your fears just by knowing, experiencing and opening your mind to acceptance.Knowing that nothing is permanent in this world, not me not you.

We are planted with fears from our childhood unknowingly and so our previous generations . And we spend our lives just overcoming old fears and adding new fears . 

You tell me ,

how come i fear heights ? but you don’t 

how come i am afraid of my parents ? but you are not 

I love dogs but my friend cries out of fear when she sees them so , 

basically the main POINT is fear is only an outcome of these planted influences .. i want you to free yourself from these imaginary fears . 

AND LIVE  a FEARLESS life.

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6 THINGS YOU NEED TO TELL YOURSELF RIGHT AWAY AND LET THE SUPER-POSITIVITY FLOW!! – BY Aakash Girdhar

I suggest listening to this song before you start reading .

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  1. I LOVE MYSELF SO MUCH, ITS UNREAL … I AM IN LOVE WITH ALL ; LIVING , NON LIVING, GOOD , BAD , FRIENDS,ENEMIES, STRANGERS , STONES ,WATERFALLS AND ON LOVE SPREADS AND SPREADS FOR ETERNITY.

Love is the core of our existence, to spread love we must first love ourselves. People have forgotten what the purpose of our lives our, it’s not about money , success, fame or religion etc. but about how much love you spread and the light of super-positivity around you.

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  1. I AM THE BEST AND THE MOST IMPORTANT CREATION OF THIS UNIVERSE, EACH MOMENT I LIVE IS MY PEAK; I AM THANKFUL TO ALL, FOR MY CREATION AND EXISTENCE.

This universe is so vast, we have no idea. Now think this way, a powerful source/creator created this universe which includes trillions of stars, galaxies, things and more; are all in their place perfectly. SO basically our creator knew what he /she was doing DON’T DOUBT YOURSELF THEN, because he/she did an awesome job.

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  1. WILL POWER ,POSITIVITY, DETERMINATION , COURAGE , CONFIDENCE , LOVE , PEACE , CREATION ,KNOWLEDGE,LUCK,DESTINY, ARE ALL ME ; THEY COME TO ME NATURALLY .

When a child is born, he laughs, he cries naturally taught by the universe itself. Don’t you think we are forgetting to learn from our first teacher … universe is always teaching us something but the only difference is that we think we have grown up, and now we know everything!!

Let our universe be teacher to us, and feel the magic come to you naturally. Let’s connect to our beautiful trees, this air we breathe, to this earth we walk on.

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  1. GOD IS IN ME, I AM IN HIM; WE ARE ONE. I AM LIMITLESS, AGELESS, TIMELESS, STRETCHING TO BOUNDARIES UNKNOWN

Me,you, us are all created by the same energy, and that energy itself is same as ours. So that means we are all of same energy. Now you may call/know that energy as GOD, The creator or universe. This energy has no limits, no boundaries no age… Then how can we?

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  1. I HAVE NO WISH BUT ONLY GRATITUDE AND LOVE FOR ALL; THANKS FOR GIVING ME WHAT I HAVE NOW… IN THIS MOMENT. “ALL I WISH FOR IS AIR TO BREATHE AND TO LOVE “

We have to stop running, and understand that the biggest gift to us was the power to express gratitude and love each other; Rest is all icing on the cake. Enjoy your each moment; we have life energy to live what else you need… Isn’t it enough? Isn’t this the best creation so far? Let’s cherish it and not lose this gift on things which our going to fade away anyway when you get them.

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  1. I AM COMPLETE, I CAN DO ANYTHING, I CAN CREATE OR DESTROY, LIVE AND DIE, MY EXISTENCE IS INFINITE AND IMMORTAL.

Universe doesn’t make mistakes we are created with the best skills, quality, caliber and more; do not underestimate yourself. Understand that what we believe is going to happen. Being one with your creator makes you a creator, let this positive energy flow through you and feel it yourself.

Create love, destroy superstitious, live life, die awesome, exist till infinity, and experience your soul’s immortality.

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 And always say when you look in the mirror    “I AM AWESOME”

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7 THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND to – REINVENT yourself!! Be the CHANGE!!Become the CHOSEN ONE!! – By Aakash Girdhar

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  1. Feeling of fear slims down any possibility you have to be different from the crowd. Fear keeps us in the herd, secured safe protected (This is what we think) which is not the reality. Break these fears of losing someone , fear of being unsuccessful ,fear of people ,fear of being left alone , fear of being poor , fear of what other thinks and more and more

    “LIFE WITHOUT FEAR OPENS UP SO MANY UNIMAGINABLE  POSSIBILITIES”

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  1. The power of disconnection, learn to disconnect and connect easily. We are so much attached to our phones, houses, families, boyfriends, girlfriends, clothes so on it stretches; To reinvent yourself you have to for sometimes disconnect from all the things, people as they influence you in ways unknown AND we spend our whole life around these influences not knowing. I am not saying to be alone; I am saying sometimes going in to an uninfluenced zone is helpful.

“CONNECTION AND DISCONNECTION ARE HARD TO COME BY, BUT TO KNOW YOURSELF YOU NEED TO REACH YOUR UNINFLUENCED SELF”

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  1. Change; Break those old spirals and stories of being “secure” “safe” “settled” in life . You need to stop living the same lives our ancestor lived but evolve and try new ways of living. Don’t get stuck in the same routines for years and then in the end realize this was all in vain. Wake up.

“NOBODY IS SAFE SECURED SETTLED, ITS ALL IN THE MIND – REDISCOVER”

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  1. Stop and look where you are heading; don’t be like a confused person running in different directions and in the end reaching nowhere. Understand the sole purpose of your existence, know what success actually mean and I can assure you it’s not money.

I wish everyone could get rich and famous and everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that’s not the answer — Jim Carrey

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  1. Learn to balance, life is about balance. Money has become a necessity doesn’t mean you aim your life to it, don’t lose yourself in this rat race we are here to explore , invent , create , discover , research ; give yourself every day at least an hour to learn discover or try something new you never did before.

“SUDDEN HAPPINESS – SUDDEN SADNESS ARE TWO INSTRUMENTS OF MIND, DON’T GET PLAYED – LEARN TO BALANCE”

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  1. Start again Start fresh – Don’t let your past decide your future. We live our life through our past, if I was bad at math yesterday doesn’t mean I am weak at math today; don’t kill the possibilities. IF YOU ARE ALONE DOESN’T MEAN YOU WILL REMAIN ALONE.

“EVERYDAY WILL BE A NEW DAY NEW START, IF YOU WISH FOR IT”

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  1. Stretch yourself, this is your Universe, don’t let Age, color, size or any other materialistic thing matter to you. Break all these barriers, live a free life; be THE CHANGE.

“TO REINVENT, TO BE THE CHOSEN ONE, TO BE THE CHANGE, ONLY 1 THING IS REQUIRED;   YOUR WILLINGNESS “

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17 Things to keep in mind to have a happy and satisfied life !! By Aakash Girdhar

1.      Life is like a game, winning or losing stays in the game. In the end nothing matters but the enjoyment you had with it.    

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2.       Your THOUGHTS, BELIEFS, WORDS are three most important influences which create your life.

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3.       Educate/Train yourself to be happy and positive.

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4.       We are all equal in the eyes of god, universe or our creator.

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5.       Motivation is an important tool; USE it.

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6.       Feeling of gratitude LOVE is what lies in the heart and soul of all living beings ;Revive it

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7.       Stop over thinking, over analyzing, over planning ; Just do it 

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8.       Confidence signifies your clear state of mind and which gives you power to do or create anything you want ; KILL CONFUSION 

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9.       Calm your mind body and soul; Listen, only then you will understand.

      “Silence is the key”.

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10.   We are one; I am the richest and the poorest; I am the hungry and full; I AM YOU AND YOU ARE ME.

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11.   Time is not running away , there is no hurry to reach somewhere ; everything is here in this moment 

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12.   Knowledge is the key to all, more knowledge leads to less confusion. Gain knowledge

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13.   Take care of your body; being healthy and strong is a way of saying thanks to our creator .

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14.   Spend time with yourself.

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15.   Most important of all BELIEVE IN YOURSELF because universe believes in you that’s why you are here I believe in you.

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16.   Acknowledge it and move on. Don’t get stuck.

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17.   We can know everything in time; look inside yourself you are the key. Find peace, patience and persistence.

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By- Aakash Girdhar